Les 7 secrets de ceux qui savent se faire aimer

*Savoir se faire aimer et apprécier est un des paramètres essentiels du bonheur. En effet, sans amitié, sans amour ou tendresse, la vie ne vaudrait plus la peine d’être vécue. Vous connaissez certainement l’une de ces personnes que tout le monde aime. Et si, au lieu de penser qu’il s’agit d’un hasard ou d’une caractéristique génétique, si vous agissiez pour évoluer vers ce fonctionnement ! Voici quelques pistes pour vous y aider…

 

 toietmoi.gif 1° – Sachez consacrer du temps aux autres

Si vous êtes toujours pressé, si vous n’avez jamais de temps pour échanger, vous ne pourrez même pas entrer en relation. Vous resterez transparent ou inexistant, tout simplement ! Le temps consacré aux autres est un investissement amical !

2 ° – Faites des compliments.

Attention, il ne s’agit en aucun cas de flatteries ! Simplement, quand vous pensez quelque chose de positif de quelqu’un, dîtes-le lui. C’est simple ? Pas si sûr, nous avons tous tendance à garder ça pour nous. Alors que ça fait tellement de bien

3° – Soyez positif avec vous-même

A partir du moment où vous pensez avoir une certaine valeur, où vous vous appréciez vous-même, vous transmettez cette idée à votre entourage. L’exact contraire de « je suis nul, restez à distance » !

4° – Cultivez le sens de l’humour

Cela n’est pas forcément spontané. L’essentiel n’est pas d’avoir le mot qui fait mouche, mais d’être capable de se moquer de soi et de relativiser. Quand on sait rire de soi, on est tout de suite plus humain !

5° – Apprenez à demander

Il est souvent plus facile de donner que de demander. Pourtant, en allant chercher de l’aide, vous permettez à l’autre d’être généreux. Et ça, c’est un beau cadeau : grâce à vous, il se fait une meilleure opinion de lui ! Rien de plus positif !

6 ° – Prenez plaisir à écouter :

S’intéresser à celui qui est là. L’écouter vraiment avec gentillesse, empathie, intérêt. Cela paraît une évidence, mais peu de personnes en sont véritablement capables. Et celles qui le font sont toujours très aimées.

7° – Ne jugez jamais

juger, c’est très facile, mais très réducteur. Cela met une étiquette qui emprisonne. Et comme vous ne connaissez qu’une petite partie de l’autre, vous avez toujours tort ! Lui laisser la liberté d’être aussi tout autre que vous pouvez imaginer, c’est extrêmement précieux parce que plutôt rare !

Et continuez sur la lancée en y ajoutant votre grain de sel. En effet, chacun peut découvrir sa manière personnelle de se faire aimer : partagez vos passions, proposez des projets, soyez confiant et positif envers les autres, osez montrer vos limites et vos faiblesses, faites passer vos relations affectives en priorité, souriez, regardez la vie avec gourmandise, faites des cadeaux personnels, cultivez votre propre bonheur pour qu’il rayonne autour de vous. Finalement, il y a mille manières de se faire aimer ! 

*(source: E-santé, – 25/02/2004 – Par Dr Catherine Solano – médecin sexologue)

 

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